Forget the old stereotype that the French are rude.
The French have a reputation for being difficult with foreigners. A good amount of that reputation is likely thanks to the Hollywood stereotype—typically in the form of stock characters like a snooty maître d’, femme fatale, or mendacious lothario.
To be sure, most visitors to France have at least one story of a run-in or misunderstanding with the French. Sometimes these are honest cultural misunderstandings, while in others, it may just be bad luck—humans are complex beings with complex emotions, and we all have our frustrating moments.
That said, some social graces are particularly helpful in France and her overseas departments (other Francophone countries may also have similar social norms). These cues may not be as important in many larger, well-touristed cities. In Paris especially, many tourism industry workers may not be French and are intimately familiar with American habits (several years ago, Paris published a booklet for tourism workers on visitors’ cultural differences and expectations). However, these cues can be good habits for smooth travel among the French.
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Great article - these suggestions work well in much of Europe... They are simply good manners as taught just about everywhere in Eu.
The article hits the most important points for tourists. Excellent writing as well. Having lived in Europe for several years, I have to expand upon your basic point about private space. This extends to the home. We are a pioneer people in this hemisphere and we entertain at home. The French (Vietnamese, et alia) do not. They will take you to a restaurant, often their favorite, and entertain you there. So you should expect this and don't grab for the check.
Very helpful article for my provision to visit this beautiful city.
Thanks